What Is It?
What is beauty? We understand the definition in its current context to mean “a combination of qualities, such as shape, color, or form, that pleases the aesthetic senses, especially the sight.”
Who decides the combination of qualities tho? 🤔 Does that change with generations, social codes and economics? Is beauty this club that we can all see, but only get a day pass to enjoy?
Nope, you are the blueprint.
You are a combination of qualities that are valued differently by different individuals. Some of the qualities, you don’t control the value of, some you can. For example, having a fat ole ass is a quality of which you can’t control the value. On the other hand, you might have a sultry voice that can drive a person wild! You can definitely control that.
You are Beauty!
If you want your beauty to be appreciated, find you someone who enjoys your particular set of qualities, and I promise you, they are out there. You are uniquely you, and every quality you have goes in a bank that possesses your beauty. Every kind act, every elegant hair sweep, every courteous laugh, files directly into your own bank. Being pretty is easy. A makeover can make you pretty. Being beautiful requires something much more difficult to ascertain. It requires confidence in your particular set of qualities.
Understanding that you are somebody’s type is the goal of self care. Don’t let the people who don’t value your specific set of qualities define your beauty. You will never rank high in that failed ass system.
You are beautiful because someone, somewhere, values your specific set of traits. Continue to replenish that bank with kindness, love and loyalty.
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*picture of me added purely because I am a baddie😛*